er why do i have to be careful, this is in a debating forum,it is my opinion thats all,and as most of the posts on it seem to agree that its very sad that a mother lost her life and has left 2 babies to be brought up by there father,when as has been reported she(probably)had survived with a transfusion. yes its there choice. most if not all wars seem to start through some form of religion,now the logic in me would say ban all religons and see what devolops. 1=would the world become a more stable place? 2=would it become total anarchy? who knows,religon serves a purpose to those who need it in there lives.