familyman Posted July 5, 2009 Report Posted July 5, 2009 Has Maz left us? never seen her on here for ages. Quote
gregers Posted July 5, 2009 Report Posted July 5, 2009 no shes still around(i think)shes probably got a life.either that or shes annoying another forum somewhere. ;) :P :P :lol: Quote
big_kev Posted July 5, 2009 Report Posted July 5, 2009 Maybe she's found a new bloke.......maybe she's in love ! :P Quote
seatkid Posted July 5, 2009 Report Posted July 5, 2009 Sounds as if the Forum Love God's got hold of her! Quote
big_kev Posted July 5, 2009 Report Posted July 5, 2009 Even I have some taste.......already got one clapped out old banger.. :lol: Quote
mk2vr6 Posted July 5, 2009 Report Posted July 5, 2009 she's still about, I'll tell her you all miss her next time we chat :lol: Quote
mumof4 Posted July 6, 2009 Report Posted July 6, 2009 Hi guys, I'm still alive. Been a lot going on. Ive been in hospital and am still recovering. I have to go back again in 6 weeks. well, 5 now.Past couple of months ive been under a lot of stress with one thing or another, meetings up the bloody ying yang and things kinda blew up the other week when i flipped out at a meeting. That did not go down very well with all present and the consequence of that is still being felt and the general consensus of all present at the meeting after i walked out part way through, was that i was highly stressed.No fing shit!Hannah, is now statemented, there will never be one set diagnosis for her she has too much going on with her to be diagnosed either autistic, has asbergers, has dyspraxia, has adhd..as she has the whole lot. So she has complex needs plus she has been diagnosed with a mega colon.Vicky my eldest, has not been managing her diabetes.. she has been running high for a month or two now and ive had no help from the disbetic team despite my calls for help in managing her numbers. A consequence of that is that now she has problems with her eyesight, whether it is permanant or not, we will not know till her numbers stabilise.The day before i went into hosp, Vicky went in for a week for evaluation.. i was not happy that they let her numbers run high to see how her numbers went. i had a row with the nurse in the hospital when vicky was discharged as we are none the wiser as to what we are supposed to do now seeing as they keep altering the amount of insulin she has to take. she has gone from taking 12 units of lantus a day, to 20. from 6 units of nova rapid 4 times a day, to between 8 and 10 each time.. but no other guidance was given and i feel we are in a worse situation than when she went in.In the run up to my op, the weeks prior.. i hardly slept, got mega stressed with having to cope with everything, with calls from the eldests dad being a complete twat, and my fear of not waking up when put to sleep. I did get stressed. and i flipped in a meeting when i was told that i must put vicky above all the others, that i must put her first and ensure that she manages her diabetes correctly, that i must ignore hannah if she is beating hell out of cameron, i refused to do as asked i said i have 4 children to consider, i cannot put one above the other, i cannot ignore hannah if she is battering one of the others as she does damage.. i said vicky will not suffer if i left her for 5 or 10 mins to sort the others out.. i was told that i would be held as negligent if i did not comply with what they asked me to do. put vicky above the others.. Thats when i flipped big time.Anyway, i now have the hulk visiting every couple of weeks... im healing ok though my wounds have a slight infection, the kids are still settling down after being away, and im bloody shattered all the time.So guys... nope... i havent gone.. im still here... i usually just play spider solitaire on the lappy and keep meself to meself and rant and rave at mk2vr6 who has been keeping my feet on the ground in a way with making me laugh and cheering me up.I know im not on as much as i used to be... but when i get stressed... i rant..Plus.. im on day 11 of no smoking. I will be back properly... i just need time to heal in both body and mind... ive taken a battering the past couple of years and i need to heal.There is so much even i can cope with.. im not superwoman and i dont want to break.Take care guys... i will be around. :lol: Quote
gregers Posted July 6, 2009 Report Posted July 6, 2009 god its always me me me all the time with you.why dont you think of others for a change. :lol: :lol: :lol: Quote
Smilge Posted July 7, 2009 Report Posted July 7, 2009 Sorry to hear that Maz and all I can say is I'll be thinking of you and that life can only get better after everything you've had to go through. Get well soon. Quote
seatkid Posted July 7, 2009 Report Posted July 7, 2009 Thinking of you Maz and hoping everything gets better for you soon. Quote
big_kev Posted July 7, 2009 Report Posted July 7, 2009 You look after yourself Pet, and get better soon. a little picture to cheer you up.... http://www.freemyspacegraphics.com/Graphics/Funny_Animations/images/49.gif Quote
mumof4 Posted July 10, 2009 Report Posted July 10, 2009 Kev... now that is mesmerising, and ever so slightly disturbing ;) Thanks for the good wishes guys, Im getting there gradually. Simple things take up so much energy . i work methodically. I cant walk the pooch at the moment so hes being walked for me.I should be back to normal in a few weeks, and i go back to see the consultant on the 12th August to discuss further options and pain management.DEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEP joy.Back soon Maz Quote
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