I found that my other half ,whilst being loving and careing in his own way,lacks a great deal of common sense. when my little'uns were babys , he also felt the need to tell me if they had filled their nappies. This was cured quite quickly when i got tendernitus,leaving me with just the use of one arm , and he had to do all the work himself for weeks. strangely enoth he stopped broadcasting what was needed.